The problem is now cured.
It seems that the range of four stroke Mariner/ Merc engines from 40 to 90 hp circa 1999 to 2004 have all had the same problem ref a 'gromett' type seal that needs replacing.
Under the power head.
If anyone else has difficulties like this I can talk them through it.
This seems to be e Great Forum
Not only outboard probs can be fixed but yer Golf Swing too